Solving Homelessness

Begins with understanding.

I am happy that I don’t know anybody who doesn’t want to help the poor and homeless. How do we help them while minimizing harm? If we give them money, are we reinforcing their lifestyle choices? Are we helping them to buy more drugs or alcohol to escape the reality of their decisions?

If we give them housing, are we attracting more people who also need housing? The Lighthouse Mission in Bellingham recently completed a large facility to help the homeless. They also help with programs to help them rehabilitate. I heard their director on the radio. He said that it is important that the homeless are not too comfortable. It is discomfort that causes people to change.

Last year I attended a workshop on poverty. It was taught by someone who had escaped generational poverty. She went from being a client of the program to running it. I wish I had the knowledge 4 decades ago. Perhaps I could have helped some people that I didn’t understand.

I learned that there is a difference in mind set between low-, middle-, and high-income people. For example, low-income people do not value time. They value relationships. They don't have jobs so don't have to be anywhere. They have friends and family but little else. When they go to see a professional, they expect to be able to talk as long as they want. If they don't get to do that, they feel disrespected. Food is a big deal. Feeding your friends, even though it is low quality, is showing your love. Everyone is welcome - just add more pasta to the spaghetti.

Middle-income people have jobs and realize time is money. They have higher quality food and fix enough for the number of people they have invited. Bring a couple of people with you for dinner and there isn't enough food. You might not be invited back.

The generational wealthy don't have jobs. They live off of investments. Position and contacts are important. They are on Boards of Directors. They attend high dollar banquets etc.

There are basic differences in how we think. We believe everyone thinks the way we think, or they are wrong. There are no easy answers. I believe it helps to learn, share, and discuss.